Relationship Question: Am I wrong to get upset when my boyfriend rubs in about girls that flirt with him?

My man and I have been together for almost a year. We had our first fight last night. He came to bed last night and kind of casually mentioned how a girl online started flirting with him and then wondered why I was no longer in a romantic mood. Everyday it is the same thing. The girl at the fast food window was flirting. The girl at the sports bar was flirting. The female cop was flirting. The waitress at the restaurant was flirting. I appreciate his honesty, but it feels like conceit to me! Of course, I would want to be told if it is something important, like a girl wanting to have cyber sex or something, but half the time they really don't seem to be flirting at all! It just really galls me! If I have no reason to mistrust him, why tell me all this? I don't tell him every time a man flirts with me; I simply diffuse the situation and move on. Of course, he turned it around on me and accused me of not trusting him and trying to break it off with him, which isn't true. I just want the bimbos to stop being rubbed in my face, first of all, and if he is giving them reason to flirt with them, to cut it out!Relationship Question: Am I wrong to get upset when my boyfriend rubs in about girls that flirt with him?
i could see it being irritating. i couldnt blame you. plus why bother even saying anything about it?? is he trying to prove something to you or what?? its unneccessary to say anything about it unless of course something more comes from it.. then it should def be known. but otherwise.. i say be mad if you want. there's no point even hearing about it the first place.Relationship Question: Am I wrong to get upset when my boyfriend rubs in about girls that flirt with him?
You're not wrong to get upset. He seems to be rubbing it in your face that other girls are flirting with him, and thats out of order. Tell him how you feel, and ask him stop, ask how he would feel if you did it to him? If he brings up the issue of you trusting him, you could say that you do trust him, but you dont know the girls.. So you dont trust them.
GIve him a taste of his own medicine, i say! most of the time, guys would listen to you but forget the next day what you told them. so on the earliest occasion, do the same. i know it sounds childish maybe but it works the best with men....go on, tell him how yoru colleague/classmate/policeman lol/sales assistant was flirting with you, asking for your number. he will get the message
Is he really that HOT that all these women would flirt with him....or, is he making it all up just to make you jeleous? Sounds like he is just trying to push your buttons. None-the-less, it's very immature of him, and it's cruel. I doubt every woman that sees him flirts with him. He sounds like a dork...ditch his butt!
He's just trying goat ya into being jealous because he really doesn't have all that high of an ego. Next time just say, ';Why wouldn't they flirt withyou. You're adorable!';. And then give him a gentle kiss or hug and go about your business. It'll throw for a loop and I'll bet the constant need for approval will discipate.
He sounds a bit insecure and wants to seem more desirable to you. That or he enjoys getting a little jealous rise out of you which might make him feel more attractive. Tell him to cut it out because you don't like it or give him a taste of his own medicine.
This guy sounds like a douche. Some guys, I have noticed, THINK girls are flirting with them when they are SOOO not. Sounds like he has a HUGE head and it's disgusting!





It sounds like you are VERY gullible, and he is feeding you lie after lie, get rid of this looser!
You should let him know about guys you see that look cute or interesting to you. When he whines, tell him he gets as good as he gives. This is what it feels like to you when he talks about girls flirting with him. Either that or just dump the dumb sob.
Just say you don't want to hear about it unless it's more serious than something stupid like that. Your BF cannot read your mind, contrary to popular Feminine belief. Just tell him how you feel about it and if he respects you he will listen.





Hope this helps :)
No,my GF used to the same thing to me,it's all right to get mad,just keep it on the inside and don't release the anger on him lol
Sounds to me he's trying to prove that he's a hot catch. Next time he does it say ';Yeah, I know you're a great catch, I know you're hot....that's why I made you mine! I hope we're making those girls jealous.';





My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We tell each other all the time when someone is flirting...its no big deal, just part of the day. We laugh about how they can't have us and how we have each other.
You are never wrong to feel anything that you feel because you can't control it. You can't choose what you like or don't like. Tell him to get over himself.
He probably wants to make you jealous or he must really enjoy telling you / allowing this to happen. don't worry you have every right to feel upset.
That's really odd. Maybe he's trying to make you jealous through his stupid games. He's being very immature. If you want to be immature back, tell him about all the guys who flirt with you and see how he reacts.
Sounds like he is stuck on himself. It seems that some guys think you are flirting if you smile at them. Maybe you should tell him the real definition of ';flirting';.
I wouldn't give him the time of day.





Fine someone else.





Don't settle for guys like that... You deserve better.





Do the right thing.





Good Luck.
no it's not wrong to get upset about that but it sounds like you're dating a narcissist that thinks every woman is flirting with him...
Hell no your not wrong for being upset!, most girls would be upset.
noooooooooooooo
I think your boy friend is wrong. I think he should ignore any other girls that want to be more than friends.
i think he is either trying to make you jealous..maybe you should tell him when other men are flirting! and see what his respons would be
No you are not wrong. He needs to be more considerate of your feelings.
He doesn't feel sexy to you so he's hinting that others do to get praise...
No, you have every right to be upset.
you have been together for a year and you had one fight????? wow
No you are not wrong. You should tell him exacty what you wrote here..
tell him that it bugs you


he just want attention


give him what he is asking for
No, he is getting some sort of twisted satisfaction by telling you.Hes also getting satisfaction from the flirting.If he ever calls you on the phone to tell you so,then he is not the only one getting satisfaction by telling you this.Also it means he does not respect you.............Major contribution to his action could also be that hes making himself out to be something hes not and wants you to think you have a stunning stud.Either way ,hes weak and his actions is negative from all angles you look at it.
gurl, u aint wrong. i think to get back at him, u should flirt with a guy and say he was flirting with you
heres the deal sweetie, the boyfriend of yours is looking for his old girl to kick it with him. do u get a job? or have less time for him? thats just a cry for: i want more time with you. and believe me, all those girls ARENT flirting with him. if he mentioned it once or twice then maybe, but he just trying to get an arrouse from u even if it starts a fight, atleast he has your undivided attention. try this: have a no cellhpone or computer nite. no distractions. just you and your man doing whatever you guys like to do best. spend quality time. and when its over , he wont be thinking about any girls flirting with him. hell be planning the next night with you.
yes you do have a reason to be made. if my significant other was doing the same thing i would be pist. why the hell would you wanna know if a girl is flirting with him. like you said if its something more serious like a girl trying to kiss him etc. then yea he should let you know but someone flirting with him is just dumb to even mention because that's just going to start fights and conflicts in your relationship. maybe you should let him know how you feel that way he'll stop telling you and making you mad.