As a man I can tell you that he is very interested in you but he is not sure if you are involved with somebody or if you will reject him. The simple things he says, to me, mean that he is trying to open a conversation with you but does not want to say things that will upset you (like his previous flirtatious things that he is not sure if it upsets you). So he resorts to meaningless things. Open up a deeper conversation with him next time. Say things like: ';what do you do when you need a friend? who do you go to? etc.';. That way you can open up to him as a friend and then go on from there.
Good luck :)Is this man flirting?
When he ses something like that to you respond to him...sometimes aand he'll ask himself why didn't she say anything this time. He's probably interested in you if he keeps up on the telking. just try talking back or beet him to the punch say something to him first.
Honestly if that's all the better he can communicate, he sounds as if he is a few cards short of a deck. Make sure this is what you want before you open the door and invite him into your life.
Answer one question...if he can't get the nerve up to express interest in you now, what sort of life are you to expect with him. He needs to grow up and you need to look elsewhere.
Just being nice maybe, but I doubt it. ';smile';. It's o:k to flirt with him with a little tease such as ';if you don't let me alone I am going to tell Sue'; are whatever her name is. That will make him talk!! he will probably say ';she is nothing to him. Now you are on your own girl. I helped you as far as I could. ';smile';
i'm not sure how this will help, some people deal with mixed signals, and they don't know any other way. it is up to you to play their game or not.
Honestly with ppl like that you will never know unless you ask and find out. Why don't you ask him out for coffee or something, or lunch at work together? little simple things like that and see where it goes from there
This dream-man of yours sure has a strange way of flirting. He probably feels you are not interested since you didn't jump at his first attempt of flirting, and doesn't know how to feel comfortable in front of you. Seems it is up to you to make the move. Next time you get the pen out, take his hand and write your number on it. Then smile and briskly walk away.
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