What do he think when he dont talk to me?

married for 3 yrs. we had a fight initially in our marriage bcz he was trying to gain attention of some other lady. he insulted me and i insulted him. after that we dont have interest in each other. we both are upset. we dont talk for 15,20,30 days after every 2-3 days conversation. we are not able to forget what happened initially and so not ready to respect each other again.


he dont have anyone else in his life nor me. he go to work, come back watch TV/internet, sleep and go back to work. on weekend he keep on sleeping.me stay at home. sometime work. it has been 2-1/2 yrs like this. we dont talk continous for 20 days. i dont know what is he thinking. why dont he try to say sorry for breaking my trust.


he got job, so able to keep quiet for long time. but i am at home. life is hell for me. i triend to find job, but couldnt succeed. i am also taking anti depressent now.


he is not ready to take divorse. in front my parents he say he want to live with me for whole life, so i cant ask my parents to keep me with them when he is behaving so nice in front of them every one blame me for this, bcz i am a girl i should have compromised and accepted his behavior instead of insulting him, they say that he didnt sleep with her. he was only flirting. hearing these words hurt. how can i accep that my husband is bored with me just in 1st month of marriage. and bcz it was just starting of my love with him, at that stage i couldnt control myself and insulted him. now everyone say all men are like this so why did i insulted him. i should have kept quiet and be happy for getting a well settled man. what should i do.


is it true that all man flirt and stop making their wife feel special after getting married to them.What do he think when he dont talk to me?
It works both ways.. an insult for an insult. When you start being dissatisfied with your life then it turns on to the nearest person to you so that you make their life unhappy. Find yourself and then try to work on the marriage.What do he think when he dont talk to me?
Just get a divorce, just flirting is not an excuse . You cannot give back your trust to him, he is the one that ****** up your marriage, you dont deserved to be blamed, they are telling you that bcz it doesn't happened to them or they have a low self esteem.
You guys either don't love each other or are too immature to be married.





Not all men are like that - this is the lie women who accept mediocre men tell each other.
Are you for real??? The minute he went after another woman you should of divorce his a.s.s.
If you had a sister, a best friend or a daughter who wrote to you with this problem, how would you advise them to proceed?





That's right. Divorce this man. Your relationship ended a long time ago. You know it and so does he. Swallow your pride and forget about what your parents think.





And NO, it is in no way normal for a newly married man to flirt with another woman. He has not apologized because he feels like he did no wrong. This man broke your heart and you spend weeks on end without talking to him. You do not have a marriage, you have a horrible room mate.





You say he is not ready to talk divorce. That tells me that he is okay with your relationship as it is. So, that is what to expect....a husband who ignores you. You say your life is hell. You do not need his permission to get a divorce, you know. Go to your parents, tell them the truth about your failed marriage, borrow money for a divorce and be done with it. Or, learn to enjoy a horrible marriage, somehow.





P.S. I don't suppose there is a chance of you getting pregnant if you are not even speaking to him for weeks on end; however, please do whatever you can to prevent pregnancy until you either come to grips with this unusual marriage arrangement or things improve drastically.


No child deserves to be raised in these circumstances.
no its not true and its not suppose to be like that.


talk to him when you are calm, apologise for insulting him and dont force him to apologise


tell him you need to make things work between the two of you, arrange for counselling


do the things that you use to do before you got married, try not to bring back his past mistakes