How to Flirt with a man?

I'm in college %26amp; extremely shy.


I dated in HS but it was so much easier back then because I had really close guy friends.


Now I go to a really big university and I would just like to know how to flirt with a man without throwing myself at him? LOL





And please be specific, not the whole ';Just be yourself'; thing.





Thanks!How to Flirt with a man?
Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and, while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in a mini skirt and heels, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself, and you slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence. See How to Build Self Confidence.





Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back. Have fun.


Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often. See How to Look Approachable.





Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship more than guys can. Also another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to ';compare hand sizes'; then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to ';break the barrier.'; A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt.





Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you鈥檙e tired and hold his hand when you're nervous.





Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.How to Flirt with a man?
Put on a nice pair of black pantyhose on with a mini skirt and just walk near him and then he will come to you.
Just talk to guys and et to know them. Ask them questions about themselves. Find out what they're into, what they like, etc.





Some guys like when girls play with their hair. Compliment them on what they're wearing/how they look/etc.
keep eye contact, like flip your hair at us lol, and if your talking to us ask a lot of questions lol, hope that helped!


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Most guys like the attention that they get from a girl. So if you compliment them alot on things, or tell them they are good at something they do, they eat that up!!